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Dating Apps

Dating Apps All Parents of Teens Should KnowDating Apps Every Parent Should Know

Dating has entered a whole new phase. As parents, we want to pretend that our kids aren’t talking to strangers online. Surely they’ve listened to us as we’ve talked about the dangers of sharing personal information over the Internet. But, our teens have grown up connecting online. It’s normal to them. Our teens don’t put their friends into nice little groups like “my friends in real life” and “my online friends.” Our teens just have friends. Their devices allow them to connect with their friends in ways many of us weren’t able to when we were their age.

This means that teens will use, or have friends who use, dating apps. The topic of dating apps isn’t something for “those other parents.” It’s a topic for every parent.

So, what is a dating app and how does it work?

Most dating apps work by location. They search for people nearby. Users are then shown profiles of other users and can begin looking at those profiles for people who have similar tastes or who express some of the same interests. Dating apps vary, but most of these apps have some way of connecting users so they can begin to chat once both users have shown some interest level in each other’s profile.

Aren’t dating apps really just “hookup apps”?

Dating apps have been labeled “hookup apps” by many. It’s true there is an overwhelming number of users taking advantage of dating apps to do just that. However, as parents, we want to keep in mind the main service all dating apps offer is connection. They all basically function as messaging apps. And users sign up with the hope of meeting someone in real life.

I see so many horror stories about dating apps. Are there no rules or guidelines?

Most apps and online dating sites do have guidelines. And those guidelines, or lack thereof, are often indicators of the behavior one might expect to find among users. However, an app is a tool. The app allows two people to meet. The app doesn’t cause a user to behave inappropriately or treat someone with a lack of respect. While some apps might allow a person to hide more easily behind poor behavior, the app itself doesn’t cause the behavior.

We absolutely need to advocate for apps that don’t allow pornography! But, we also need to walk beside our teens and teach them how to be young men and women of character. We need to teach them to treat each other respectfully. Respect never goes out of style even if the tools through which young adults meet and mingle do. I am in no way advocating for your teen to use a dating app. I am advocating for parents to teach kids to be respectful–always. The level of civility we use when we speak to someone doesn’t change simply because we aren’t speaking to them face to face.

How Can I Keep Up On All the Dating Apps Available?

The number of dating apps on the market now is mind blowing. I could write about each one. And, in fact, I began to do just that. In the end, I decided to do so was information overload. Instead, I decided to roll out a series on dating apps. Instead of trying to cover every single dating app, I’ll be highlighting those with age permissions for 13 to 17-year-olds. I’ve also included dating apps for ages 17 and up that are popular with teens. And because popular apps change all the time with our teens, I’ll give you a list of additional dating apps as we wrap up this series.

My hope is this series will help you have open conversations with your teen about dating.

Dating Apps All Parents Should Know

BadooDay 1- Badoo

Get the inside scoop on the dating app Badoo!


Dating App_DownDay 2-Down

Get the inside scoop on the dating app Down!


HookedUp Dating AppDay 3-HookedUp

Get the inside scoop on the dating app HookedUp!


Dating App_HotorNotDay 4-Hot or Not

Get the inside scoop on the dating app Hot or Not!


Dating App_MeetMeDay 5-MeetMe

Get the inside scoop on the dating app MeetMe!


Dating App_MyLOLDay 6-MyLOL

Get the inside scoop on the dating app MyLOL!


Dating App QeepDay 7-Qeep

Get the inside scoop on the dating app Qeep!


Dating App_SkoutDay 8-Skout

Get the inside scoop on the dating app Skout!


Dating App_SpotaFriendDay 9-Spotafriend

Get the inside scoop on the dating app Spotafriend!


Dating App_TinderDay 10-Tinder

Get the inside scoop on the dating app Tinder!


Additional Dating Apps Worth Noting: Blendr, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, Grindr, Hinge, Hitch, How About We, HUGY, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish Tastebuds, Whiplr, Zoosk

Dating Apps All Parents of Teens Should Know