How to Make Sure Your Teens and Tweens are Safe When Online Gaming

How to Make Sure Your Teens and Tweens are Safe When Online Gaming

How to Make Sure Your Teens and Tweens are Safe When Online Gaming

Every day it seems like there is another online game that pops up and is the big thing that “everyone” is playing – at least according to teens and tweens. It really is a lot of fun to play online games with people around the world. Most of those people are decent human beings, just looking to have some fun as well.

However, it’s hard to avoid the less scrupulous individuals who are up to no good, leaving parents wondering how to make sure teens and tweens are safe when online gaming.

Though it seems like the easiest way to keep kids safe is to just pull the plug and disallow online gaming, our children need to learn how to navigate the online world in a safe way. By talking early and often about how to recognize predatory behavior, what to do to protect themselves, and how to keep their computers and personal information secure, we’re giving them knowledge that they will need down the road.

Here are a few important tips that can help you start the conversation about safe online gaming.

Use Secure Passwords

Setting hard-to-crack passwords is important for everyone, including teens and tweens who are playing games online. Instruct them to use a combination of letters, numbers, and symbols that would be hard to guess. Be sure you have a copy of their passwords, so you can check in on their accounts periodically for suspicious messaging and activity. Better yet, use a secure password generator. My favorite is LastPass.

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Avoid Using Personal Pictures

Be sure your child never uses a personal photo or something that is personally identifiable when setting an avatar or in personal messages. Instead, use something less conspicuous like an image of a character they like or choose a default image, as offered by the gaming software.

Check Profile Details

Review gaming profiles and be sure that no personal information is being displayed. This includes real name, age, location, and other identifying information. Take care that usernames also are very generic in nature. Be creative with names but without using initials, birthdates, or other personal info.

Learn Block and Report Procedures

Just about every online gaming platform has a “block and report” feature to alert moderators to trouble. If someone is bullying, making inappropriate comments, or attempting to get personal information from you, do not respond. Instead, screenshot the activity in case you need the proof later, then block and report the user through the proper channels.

Use Voice Changer Features

Many games have a chat feature, which can be fun to use. However, you’ll want to have your teens use a voice changer feature on their headset or mic to maintain their privacy. Remind them that rules about personal information apply, as well as blocking and reporting those who make inappropriate comments and requests.

Avoid Using Webcams

Using a webcam when online gaming is simply unsafe, no matter how you slice it. Unless they are only playing with people they know in real life, such as school friends or far away family, it is a best practice to not use this feature at all.

Protect Your Computer

Finally, make sure that you have effective antivirus and malware protection installed on your computer before allowing your teens and tweens to play online games. Even the most careful players can sometimes be duped into downloading an unsafe file and putting their system or information at risk. Update and scan regularly to make sure that your computer stays safe.

Allowing teens and tweens to enjoy the freedom of online gaming can be scary, but knowledge is the best defense. Parents should take precautions and educate their children on how to stay safe online and the consequences that could happen if safety procedures aren’t followed.

How to Make Sure Your Teens and Tweens Are Safe When Online Gaming

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How to Make Sure Your Teens and Tweens are Safe When Online GamingHow to Make Sure Your Teens and Tweens are Safe When Online Gaming


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